How to ask a girl out
Here are a step-by-step formula to ask a girl out.
1. Attract her. Most importantly you need to get the girl attracted to you... It's pretty easy to do... but you need some practice (I will tell you more about how you can do this further down in this article).
2. Get to know what she likes. The more she will enjoy something the better... Ask her questions so that you can find a common interest.
3. Choose a good place. All places where you sit down at a table is not good for two reasons... it's stiff and you can't be physical easily (it's very important), choose a place that's less traditional... for example: Go to a park, Play bowling, Go to a lounge bar with sofas.
4. How to ask her out. When you ask a girl out you can do it either by the phone... or face to face... however you do it don't be needy... I usually send a text where I first make some joke about something we talked about last time we met...
Best thing if you teases her a bit... it's important to use some type of question so you forces her to respond... then when we have sent 2-3 messages to each others I go for the date message... now she is invested into the conversation...
5. This is what the typical conversation looks like: (I found out before that the girl worked as a make up artist and that she liked animals and she also liked going to the zoo... she is also attracted to me which makes this a whole lot easier... I will soon tell you more about how to attract girls)
Me: My cat needs a makeup tomorrow... do you give discount to animals?
Her: hahaha... yeah sure... your cat really needs a make up? Isn't she already cute?
Me: Yeah... but she wants to look sexy... not cute... she really care about her appearance... by the way she said she wants to meet you...
Her: Really? lol... I'm looking forward to meet her and you :)
Me: She say she wants you and me go to the zoo first... how about tomorrow afternoon... :)
Her: Wonderful... I really want to go there :), what time?
Me: 6 pm at _____?
Her: Perfect!
Me: See you tomorrow... sleep well :)
As I told you before... attracting women is the best way to be sure that a girl want's to go out with you... how can you know when/if a girl is attracted to you? And how do you get a girl attracted to you? Check out this video (it's the same technique I use and it works great).
Hi, I am Steven. I will tell you how to ask a girl out.
Here is my
personal story of how I learned how to ask girls out:
About 5 months ago I had a huge crush on a girl called Jessica, she was a friend’s friend... I had only met her a couple of times... so we didn’t really know each others that well... but I was strongly drawn to her.
I had one big problem though... I was too shy to ask her out and I didn’t know how to do it. I went online searching for “how to ask a girl out”, I read every article I could find on the topic. However, nothing was good enough... What I learned at the time was that I needed to get the girl really attracted to me before I asked her out.
I continued searching online for different techniques, after a lot of work I found how to use “
high status humor” to get a girls attention, attract her and then ask her out on a date.
Studies shows that girls are most attracted to men how are high status and knows how to use humor. This is really what High Status Humor is all about, showing women that you are high status by using humor.
I learned the technique in about a week.
Next time I met Jessica I used High Status humor on her. She was laughing and we were having a great time, I had attracted her for the first time. After this she was the one asking me “You are a special guy, we should meet again”. I didn’t have to do anything except being an attractive funny guy to get her out on a date.
Since then I have used this high status humor to get about 10 dates (in the last 5 months). I didn’t have to do much work to ask them out on a date after they were attracted to me.
Humor is actually something that can be taught. After you have learned HSH you have an unfair advantage against all other guys.
You can see a video about HSH here.
Actually it’s pretty hard to get a girl to ask you out.
But there are ways you can make it easier for yourself.
First of all you need her to be interested in you… (read my story to get some inspiration).
After she is attracted to you, you can start to ask her questions about her hobbies or things she like… when you find a common interest it will be pretty easy to either ask her out or maybe she will ask you out if you are really lucky 
Girls don’t want you to ask her out in a “cute way”… She wants a man that ask her out not a girl.
Choose a place that’s less traditional, restaurants are not good for many reasons (you sit too far away from each others). Do something more fun like playing bowling, pool (the more physical you can be the better).
Don’t ask her to go out with you like this “Do you want to go out on dinner with me?” Instead TELL her (when you know what she likes)… “We should go bowling… I’ll beat you for sure”. Challenge is always better than playing it too safe.
Click the home button to find out how I ask a girl out.
Before I ask a girl out on a date, I want to make her as attracted to me as possible (read my story to find out more).
After I know she is attracted to me I try to find out what she likes to do, so when I finally ask her out on a date she will already want it.
When I finally ask her out, I do it in a way so it’s already implied that she will agree to it, like this:
Me: You told me you like pancakes right?
Her: Yeah, I love pancakes…
Me: I know this place that serves the best pancakes (describe how wonderful pancakes they serve)… we should go there some day next week, when are you up for it?
Her: Wednesday.
Me: Cool… Wednesday it is.